It turns out, men and women kiss for different reasons.
Basically, women kiss men to discover information about him. Men, unsurprisingly, kiss women to get them into bed.
However, both sexes kiss to become emotionally closer.
If you’re not currently having intense, erotic kissing sessions with your lady then your sex life may not be as hot or as intense as they could be.
Women love to connect to men through kissing.
As Dr. Helen Fisher states, women kiss to collect information.
A woman can tell a lot from a man’s kiss. We want you to really be into us and a kiss doesn’t lie.
So make sure you’re honest.
A sensitive woman will be able to tell much about your feelings and intentions toward her when you’re making out.
Here is a List of 14 Kissing Tips for you to try:
Go in slowly for a kiss. Hold her in your arms first and allow your breathing to synchronize. It will help her yield and soften toward you.
Don’t go for her mouth first. You could start by kissing her forehead, eyelids, neck, cheeks and décolletage (upper chest) before kissing her on the lips. Try nibbling her ear too. That’s fun!
- Go slowly and softly. Make your lips as full and soft as you can. You want her to feel the sensuality of your kiss and be in the moment with you.
- When you first start kissing her, start with shorter kisses. Maybe a series of sweet pecks on the mouth, but pay attention when you do this. You want to make her want more without putting her off.
- Try moving from her lips to her neck, to her cheeks and her forehead, then back to her lips again.
- Take breaks. Breathe each other in deeply. Look into her eyes and connect with her.
- Compliment her. Make her feel desirable. Tell her how sexy and beautiful she is.
- Let her talk. Let her get anything she needs to say out so that she can surrender herself to you.
- Don’t have an agenda for getting more than kisses. Don’t kiss her to get sex. Kiss her for the sheer joy of connecting with an attractive woman who is willingly offering herself to you.
- Many women need signs of appreciation when kissing their man. So make sounds of pleasure when kissing her. Just be attentive. Too much is too much.
- A good position to emphasize the gender polarities is by laying her down and get above her. Hold her down lightly as you kiss. Hold her chin in your hands. Hold her hands against the mattress. Give her the feeling that you are dominate while making it clear she is always in control and you will NEVER hurt her. VERY IMPORTANT.
- Move her body for her. Shift her hips a bit. Move her leg. Firmly but gently. Take control of everything and reward her for letting herself go into the bliss you are creating for her.
- Use a wide variety of kisses. Pecks. Smooches. Deep tongue kissing. Delight in her.
- Mirror her actions. Notice how she kisses you and kiss her back in the same ways. Then watch how she responds.
According to Dr. Helen Fisher, she says a recent study found that 59 percent of men and 66 percent of women said they have ended romance after the first kiss. It was, for them, the kiss of death.
Here’s the last kissing tip…
So, be careful how you kiss. You could be the beginning, or the end, of something beautiful.
I hope you enjoyed these kissing tips.
Stay Sensual, Dyann xoxo