These questions will reveal the truth —>
Is she genuinely sexually attracted to you?
OR
Is she just putting up with you?
When a woman sees you as an the alpha male, her biology reacts. Her body tells her she can relax. She can just go with the flow and be serene. She can trust you and definitely become wet for you.
THEN… it’s like surrender becomes a natural thing she wants to do for you and for herself.
What about when she sees you as the beta boy? Ouch… this is gonna hurt a little, but American society has trained men to get walked on and then dismissed. I want to help you prevent that.
When your lady or the lady you want to date sees you as a beta male, her biology starts to shut down sexually. Maybe her voice gets sharper. She questions and challenges you more.
In general, she is resisting you. If that’s the case, then sex is not going to be on menu anytime soon.
That’s why asking these questions — to yourself — and answering them honestly matters.
Because let’s be honest… this isn’t all her fault. Should she be respectful to you? YES… absolutely.
Every beta male should be treated with respect. You haven’t done anything ‘wrong’ per se.
However, she’s on edge around you because she is sensing weakness in you.
A feral animal in a cage will strike what is deems a weaker intruder into their space.
Think of it like a zoo – the world has built fences – mostly by men — and areas for the animals – mostly women – to move and live in.
Women are the wild animals and men are like the zookeepers in this scenario.
A wild animal will get used to a zookeeper after awhile if it’s being brought food.
However, the animal will strike the zookeeper who offers the food with much fear and trepidation.
Be the zookeeper the wild animal respects.
Claiming your masculine power does that.
Now, it’s important to remember, this behavior from women is not usually conscious…
Unless she’s very self aware. Most people are not that aware, so don’t take it personally.
She’s not disrespecting you on purpose.
If she’s not good at controlling her inner environment then it’s not something she’s consciously controlling.
It’s biological. Instinctual. And… you as the manly zookeeper, can learn to shift that wild animal’s attitude toward you.
Sometime men don’t realize they’ve stopped being the Alpha — until they realize she’s not as respectful or playful or forgiving as she once was.
This dynamic Beta/Wild Woman is one of the biggest sexy time killers in long-term relationships.
In fact, it’ll kill almost everything about your relationship until she wants O-U-T.
As well… it tends to happens gradually.
So here are the questions and how to rate them..
- If you answer YES to 4 or more questions — she sees you as a BETA
- If you answer NO to 4 or more questions — she sees you as an ALPHA
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Let’s begin.
1. Does she make jokes about you to her friends? Perhaps especially, if you are in front of your friends or worse – family?
If the answer is YES – then she doesn’t care about upholding your image or reputation. Bleck.
If the answer is NO – Then protects your image because she respects you. She understands that status matters to a man and you are HER man.
2. Does she speak to you in a disrespectful manner? Either with impatience or irritation over little things?
If the answer is YES – This means she doesn’t see you as a man in charge. It’s because she’s seen you doe things that suggest you are scattered and indecisive on too many occasions and is expecting you to screw up again. In other words, she doesn’t respect your leadership abilities.
If the answer is NO – Her respectful tone means she sees you as decisive and can relax into your leadership style because you know how to make good decisions.
3. Does she challenge your decisions or ask why you’re doing something quite a lot?
This looks like double-checking everything you say, needing to ‘verify’ your choices, or refusing to let your word be final on any plan.
If the answer is YES – She doesn’t trust your judgment or instincts. So, she feels like she’s got to double check everything.
If the answer is NO – She knows you make good decisions and respects your authority as a man.
4. Does she get angry at you for doing things like working or exercising too much?
If the answer is YES – She resents that you have drive and purpose. It irritates her because she thinks you’re weaker than that. It’s like she’s saying, why bother working that hard when you’re a beta?
If the answer is NO – She supports you, takes care of you, and wants to see you win because she respects your ambition and mission.
5. Does she wear sloppy clothes and unsexy underwear around you?
If the answer is Yes – She’s just doesn’t care if she arouses you or not. It’s become a non-thing to turn you on, so why bother?
If the answer is No – She still wants to turn you on because your masculine presence still gets her turned on.
6. Does she reject your help with physical tasks?
If the answer is Yes – She already feels alone in many ways, so why would she allow you to be a partner in helping her carry in the groceries?
If the answer is No – She recognizes your strength and welcomes your masculine role. Allowing you to help her with physical things suggests she knows that you, as a man, like to ‘take action‘ with people and situations that you care about.
7. Does she make you wait or show up late without an apology?
If the answer is Yes – She doesn’t respect you. Period. She doesn’t see you as someone who is valued enough to be on time for. She’s also just plain rude.
If the answer is No – She honors your time and shows up because she respects you and the role you have in her life as her man.
8. Does she confront you or correct you in public?
If the answer is YES – She doesn’t respect you or your authority as a man. She is undercutting your manhood. And she’s rude.
If the answer is NO – She brings things to you privately, because she respects you and your leadership as a man.
THE BOTTOM LINE IS THIS…
A woman will mirror the kind of power you bring to the relationship as a man.
A reasonable woman doesn’t need you to be perfect. She doesn’t even need you to be right all the time.
What she really needs is for you to feel that you’re solid. Clear. Decisive. Unshakeable.
That’s what gives her — as a feminine woman — permission to surrender to you —
Not just emotionally… but sexually.
So as a beta man, she’ll confront you, correct you, pull away from sex, challenge your decisions and basically start looking elsewhere for masculine energy.
HOWEVER…
As an alpha male she’ll trust you to lead. When that’s the case she’ll soften, she’ll submit, she’ll want to impress you. She’ll crave your attention. She’ll get turned on just by the sound of your voice, or the way you look at her or because you’re standing near her.
This is the way it is. This is the core of male/female dynamics and it’s what we must honor — in ourselves – and in the opposite sex. Yes, there are just two. Do we really need anymore than that?
Thanks for reading/listening, I wish you a very sensual day.
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