Performing Nuru massage at home is something many people have thought about, but few have tried. This sensual, body-to-body massage style has grown in popularity in recent years.
Nuru is the kind of massage that is not commonly provided by most massage practitioners. It tends to be a messier massage than most and used the entire body rather than just hands. Most massage providers – even erotic FBSM providers, don’t offer nuru massage.
With the right preparation, communication, and technique, you can create a safe and enjoyable Nuru experience in the comfort of your own home.
In this guide, we’ll walk you through everything you need to know.
What Is Nuru Massage?
Nuru massage is a Japanese-inspired body-to-body massage that uses a special slippery gel to allow smooth, gliding contact between partners.
“Nuru” means “slippery” in Japanese, which perfectly describes the experience.
What You’ll Need…
- Nuru gel (water-based and skin-safe)
- A waterproof sheet or plastic mat to place on the bed or floor
- A private, quiet room
- Large towels
- Warm room temperature – being cold will ruin the mood quickly.
- Soft lighting (candles or dim lights)
- Relaxing music (if you like)
Pro Tip: Nuru gel becomes extra slippery when warmed slightly. Place the bottle in warm water for a few minutes before use.
A great idea is to shower together before hand.
This helps to;
- Relaxes muscles
- Builds anticipation
- Ensures clean skin for smooth gliding
- Lightly towel off after, but leave the skin slightly damp — this helps the gel spread more easily.
Apply the Nuru Gel Generously
Nuru massage requires a lot of gel — more than you think.
- Pour gel onto your hands and your partner’s body.
- Spread it evenly across the back, shoulders, legs, and arms.
- Reapply as needed to maintain slipperiness for a full-body glide, not friction.
- Start with Slow, gentle movements – when learning how to do Nuru massage at home, slow is better
- Begin with long strokes using your hands
- Gently knead the shoulders and lower back
- Perform light fingertip tracing along the spine
- You want to focus on relaxation before increasing the sensual intensity
Just Imagine…
NEXT…
Transition to Body-to-Body Contact (The defining element of Nuru massage)
- Position yourself above your partner
- Use your chest, stomach, and thighs to glide across their body
- Move slowly and rhythmically
- Maintain steady pressure but avoid putting too much weight on them
- Communication is key — check in to ensure comfort and enjoyment.
- Check your partner’s breathing and their body language with verbal feedback
- Adjust pressure, speed, and touch based on their reactions
- This is a mutually sensual and pleasurably experience and should never be rushed.
- As the nuru massage winds down slow your movements even more
- Transition back to soft hand strokes
- Hold each other for a few moments afterward
- Aftercare is important. Shower together again or clean up with warm towels.
Safety Tips
- Use only body-safe, water-based gel.
- Avoid oil-based products (they can damage surfaces and increase risk of irritation).
- Be careful on slippery surfaces.
- Communicate boundaries clearly.
- Stop immediately if either person feels discomfort.
Nuru massage has been performed for centuries across most every culture around the world.
It can be a fun and intimate way to connect with your partner. The key elements are preparation, communication, patience, and plenty of gel. So, take your time, focus on connection rather than performance, and most importantly — enjoy the experience together.
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Thanks for reading/listening. I wish you a very sensual day. Dyann xoxo
