It’s true women are a mystery, but all you really need, to ignite sexual desire and romance from a lady, is to know what women respond to which is a Sense of Protection from a man.
The fact is, Gentlemen, you don’t need to understand women to do this. You really just need to give her a sense of protection. To do that is easier than you may think.
And this is part of what being an ‘alpha male‘ is really all about.
This is where you need to demonstrate who you are as a man.
Trying to ‘talk your way in’ is not as effective or efficient. It can be done, but why do you want to try to convince her to have sex with you?
That type of view point is juvenile and doesn’t work that well anyway.
Instead, why not focus your energy on giving her what she can ONLY get from you.
This is also where your true energy as a man shows up. Why? Because sex is not necessarily a demonstration of performance so much as presence.
How in the Now are you? Especially, during sex?
If you as a man, can demonstrate how powerfully protective you are of her and women in general, there isn’t much she won’t do for you at that point.
This is where her feminine instincts override her intellect. Where her deepest wiring kicks in.
Why? Because during sex, she is physically and emotionally vulnerable. She is allowing you inside her body—something no biology textbook or feminist theory can neutralize.
And in that moment, she needs to know one thing above everything else —>
“Am I with a man I trust and who will not hurt me?”
Trust doesn’t mean getting weak with her.
It doesn’t mean being shy and timid.
It means being in charge of yourself.
She wants to feel your strength—but only if it’s anchored in emotional control.
She wants to feel your dominance—only when it’s wrapped in protection.
And she wants to let go…
BUT only if you can hold the space for her to surrender.
That’s why the man who combines animal aggression with sensitive awareness — who can be a bit rough, but responsible — a man who can pin her down and still hold her gently afterward —
Well that man…becomes a woman’s everything.
AND — There’s even a biological reason for this response.
Research shows that many women are more aroused by dominant sexual behavior—when it’s consensual and paired with trust.
In fact, rough sex preferences often correlate with higher sexual satisfaction—because they tap into primal, unconscious desires to be overpowered by a man who is strong enough not to abuse that power.
If only more men would understand this, you’d have a much easier time with women and specifically your lady.
So when you show up in the bedroom as the calm, confident, and focused masculine man you are (or are fast becoming0?
Her sexual desire is ignited like a bonfire.
She’ll surrender to you. Not because she’s weak, but because, finally, she feels safe to be fully feminine.
YOU have to make her want to do that by BEING that kind of man.
It’s not as hard as you may think. Although if you need some more specific advice, try listening to this video from Susan Bratton on Reviving Her Drive…
And if you want a little stimulation yourself, discover some of Dyann’s narrated audiobooks below…
