OK Gentlemen;
Here’s a (short) list of things many men are doing to kill their relationships with women… AND what you guys can do to fix those things… right now.
#1 –
If you’ve been with your lady for awhile, you probably haven’t given her too many compliments about her appearance lately.
Men have a tendency to stop complimenting women after they’ve known them for some time. Let’s face it, her physical attractiveness is what got her noticed by you in the first place.
Women often feel (very deeply) that their physical attractiveness is directly connected to their self worth.
Intellectually we know this is not true, women believe it anyway… and for good reason. We know men are instantly triggered by female beauty. We want you to want us. So, if her looks do it for you… tell her.
#2 –
Another aspect of relating to your lady that gets over looked with time, is her personality. You’re with her because you’re compatible.
Notice the little things she does and says that make you feel like you can relax with her and be yourself. If you’ve found a romantic partner whom you can be totally yourself with thank them for it!
For example, if she laughs at (most of) your jokes when the gals at the office give you an eye roll… tell her how much you appreciate it.
#3 –
OK… you can thank me for this one later. Nothing will make a woman feel more special than appreciating her unique point of view. Nobody sees the world in quite the same way.
If you’ve been with your lady for an extended period of time, it’s because she has something to offer, you can’t get anywhere else. Her POV.
The saying, “Behind every great man there is a greater woman” still applies today because men need a navigator. She’s the one you want to talk to about personal stuff.
She helps put things into perspective. She helps calm you and ground you. You’ll be privy to how she sees things. She’ll shows you sides of the issue you couldn’t possibly see. So, tell her how important her POV is to you.
#4 –
For men, their profession is part of their identity. For some women this is true but it depends.
However, what work does for every woman is make her independent. An independent woman is a beautiful thing. It doesn’t matter what she does for a living or how much she likes or dislikes what she does.
If she’s making enough to support herself she has a good measure of power… with or without you. Let her know you appreciate the fact that she can hold her own economically.
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#5 –
Having a woman in your life is a wonderful thing. Begin to notice how much having her around makes you feel more like a man.
Just the presence of a woman in a room changes a man on every level… physiologically, mentally, emotionally and spiritually. Take notice how she affects your masculine being and tell her about it.
#6 –
Remember to talk about her (positively) when she’s not around. Connecting her to you when she’s not present is a powerful signal to others.
Whether it’s your family, friends or co-workers, her status will be raised in their eyes when you speak highly of her.
Even if they haven’t met her yet. Creating an awareness of her when she’s not around is creating a stronger bond between the two of you. As a consequence your connection will be stronger when you are together.
#7 –
Honesty is the best policy. Especially, within romantic relationships. This is a difficult tip for many to follow as men get used to not telling their whole truth or even part of it to their women.
So often in long term relationships one or both partners habitually omit pieces of information, if not outright lie. It erodes intimacy and closeness over time.
This may be a tricky tip to follow but I encourage you to begin to be more “complete” in your truth telling. See what happens.
The truth may not necessarily set you free…. but it sure is interesting. Besides, it builds more intimacy even if it’s uncomfortable at first.
#8 –
Buy her special things and take her to great places. Yes, this is a totally cliched thing to do and most women love it! We love to be treated to a special gift and getaway.
It doesn’t have to be extravagant. Work it into the budget and put a lot of thought into the details. This will go a long way to getting you treated as the benevolent king you are… in return. 😉
#9 –
Touch her right. This is so basic it almost seems unnecessary to mention. The trouble is so many men don’t “handle” their women correctly. Women tend to put up with certain types of groping or just avoid it altogether. Women want a gentle but firm grasp. We want to be held tight but not too hard. We want to feel claimed but not owned. Get it?
Women love a man who takes control in and out of the bedroom, but it’s vital to communicate. If you’ve got the previous tips on this list nailed down, then you’ll be able to talk to her about how she wants and needs to be touched. Especially, when it comes to sex.
Please her first gentlemen, you ‘ll get much more from her in return. I heard Dr. Phil say one time that women are “spring-loaded” to lavish a man with affection. This is true in many ways.
However, this instinct can only be triggered when she gets what she wants first. She must feel honored and respected first. Don’t begrudge this point. It’s the way Life is.
If it was the other way around it would turn into a master/slave situation. That won’t work for anybody for very long.
Remember, women want to return the favor of your attention. After you’ve given her a mind blowing sensual experience you’ll have a devoted tiger on your hands. If you put her first in the romance department, you’ll get much more back from her inside and outside the bedroom.
When you do, you’ll unleash the feline beast all women have inside them. Yeah, baby. Yeah.
#10 –
Understand and know that women are very independent creatures. Men are more for being “joiners” and group participants. There is no judgement here. It’s how Life balances itself. Duality is the stuff of Life.
These gender patterns manifest on a primal level. So much so, we don’t even realize the tendencies we have let alone in the opposite sex.
There are exceptions to every rule, however, if you don’t believe me then examine the life cycle of the genders.
In the beginning of their lives women work very hard to create a family, home and community around them. When men are young, they tend to work very hard at establishing themselves and making their mark in the world.
As women reach middle age and beyond, they don’t need a man in their lives as much. This is evidenced by the fact that far fewer women get remarried after a divorce or the death of a spouse. On the other hand most men will marry again or find a live-in companion to share their lives with.
Men and women are often compared to dogs and cats. Like dogs, men are loyal and obedient in the right hands. Like cats, women will always be independent and affectionate when it suits them. The good news is… even dogs can win a cat over if they’re patient and persistent enough.
I hope this short list helps you and your relating to the ladies.
Thank you for reading.
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