Gentlemen, When Contacting An Erotic Provider – Be Responsible!

I’ve mentioned the issue of men taking responsibility for how they contact an erotic provider a number of times before on my blog.

For example, I wrote about how it’s important to get a burner cell if you don’t want evidence of an erotic provider on your personal or work cellphone. Find that page here…

It seems like a straight forward concept, but many men don’t apply it.

However, it keeps happening so it bears mentioning again.

Gentlemen please take responsibility for how you contact providers in the erotic industry.

Caveat:

I know women do not always take responsibility for themselves and their actions either, albeit in different ways.

However, The Body House is dedicated to helping men understand and relate to women better. It’s in that vein I write this article….

Since this is pretty basic, but important stuff, I’ve created a short list of what NOT to do when contacting an erotic provider:

• Don’t expect her to bend to your requests as to when she should or shouldn’t call or text you back – after all it’s her business. You wouldn’t do that with your doctor or even your barber would you? Extend the same courtesy to your erotic provider since this is her business.

• Don’t call on a blocked number (Basic common sense, but happens all the time). Most providers won’t answer calls from a blocked line anyway. Getting a cheap cell phone and an extra sim card is easy and easy to keep private too. It would benefit everyone for you to use a burner cell.

• Please don’t call on a landline and tell her it’s a cellphone or that you can receive calls and texts on it en route. This is just foolish for so many reasons. Traffic happens. Accidents happen. Have respect. It’s her time. Have a reliable way of being reached.

• Don’t ask to bypass her rules. For example asking, “Oh can’t you just text me the address or make an exception for me or I’m a good guy, you’ll like me, I’m okay.” Or any number of other excuses not to do it her way. There is a strong line between being an authoritative leader (which we love in a man) and a selfish jerk (which we don’t like so much). Sometimes it’s a fine line, but this move is clearly in the jerk camp.

• Don’t agree to her terms over the phone or by email and then start asking for more once you get in the session thinking she’ll just submit to your requests. This is really bad form and happens a lot. It’s a cheesy way of trying to get what you REALLY want without asking for it. Sometimes it works, but more often it doesn’t. Either way you’ve left a really icky impression. Have more self respect than that.

In general, if you want to engage in activity with a erotic provider be responsible for your end of it.

Here are a few things you CAN do to engage in with an erotic provider discreetly:

• If you want to stay private get a separate encrypted email address just for this type of activity (eg. tutanotamail – NOT protonmail)

• Get a little burner phone that is cheap, easy to hide and about $10 a month to maintain

• Make sure you’re in an area where you can speak to her privately when you call so the conversation can be unencumbered with privacy concerns

• Do your homework! Checkout her ads and website if she has one. Follow her directions and read through her terms of service. It’s irresponsible not to and makes it less likely to get an appointment if you don’t.

Develop your sense of responsibility gentlemen. You can only have better interactions with women if you do!

These seem like simple, basic things to do, but the number of men who don’t do them suggests that the men who behave like this don’t respect the women they are coming to see and even worse, they don’t respect themselves.

Let’s do better!

The world needs strong, confident men. Think well of yourselves gentlemen and extend that respect to the women around you. I promise you, you will get so much more from women in return when you do.

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