How To Be A Sex God

This article is the first in a series that will help you develop your sexual skills as a man.

As you all know, women love a man who knows what he’s doing in bed.

In fact, it’s one of the main things that will keep her around… and dare I say ‘addicted’ to you.

Of course, you’ve got to be the kind of man who she likes and respects too, for a long term relationship or marriage to go the distance.

However, sexual confidence allows a man to be confident and energetic in EVERY area of his life.

So I’m going to take you on a step by step journey to honing those lovely erotic skills you gentlemen are so eager to display with the ladies. 😉

The inspiration for this comes from Daniel Rose’s book “Sex God Method.”

Find it here…

The 4 Primal Polarity Core Principles of Attraction

In my opinion there are 4 Primal Polarity Principles of Attraction between men and women. They are;

Psychological Stimulation
Dominance and Leadership
Primal Desire/Sexual Instincts
Boldness/Bravery/Courage

A woman will fight over a man with these qualities. She will do what it takes to be at the top of the heap and insert herself into this man’s life.

However, a woman won’t fight over a man unless and until she develops a high level of self containment. THAT is for another article though.

Let’s dive into the steps to being her Sex God.

Psychological Over Physical Stimulation

We know men are very visual when it comes to sexual desire. We also know that many men are really into the physical aspect of sexuality.

For women though, they want more than the physical. They want a man who can penetrate her mind too. That usually has to happen BEFORE they get physical.

Some men focus so much on the physical that it becomes somewhat mechanical. A little rub here and another rub there.

The trouble with that is every woman is different and she’s going to be different with every man nearly every time she has sex.

So what’s a man to do?

Well, it ALL comes down to the mental aspect of having sex with the ladies. This is a much more complex approach.

It’s one though, that if you master it, will yield you endless nights of passion from not just your special lady, but many more women too! If that’s your thing of course. 😉

A Dominant Attitude As A Leader

I’ll spare you from the traditional reasoning behind why women like dominant men.

It’s the schlock about how millions of years of evolution trained women to want the dominant “alpha” type men.

I used to believe this too, but after years of research and digging into informational areas well outside the mainstream, I’ve come to other conclusions as to why women love dominant men.

The bottom line though is that women really DO love dominance in a man.

So what does that really look like?

With men, it’s all about confidence. The kind of confidence that leaders have.

Let’s look at it this way – if you own your own successful business, you can allow yourself to be very confident in knowing how to run that business. You know what that business needs to run smoothly and to ultimately thrive.

You as the owner, have made countless decisions in the development of that business. Additionally, you know that most of those decisions have worked out well.

So, you are not going to allow someone else to make decisions for the business.

You may take an employee’s suggestion to do something if you think it might work. However, ultimately you know that it’s your decision. If it works it’s on you and if it doesn’t it’s on you. You are the leader of your business.

And as a man… you are a natural born leader as well.

Now, apply this principle to your own life, in general.

f you are the owner of your own life (which you are) and you’ve made all the decisions up until this point, why would you suddenly allow someone you doesn’t know you or your life very well to make decisions for you?

Why would you let someone else lead your life?

You wouldn’t would you?

Now, how does this have anything to do with being a SEX GOD with women?

Well, just like you are a natural born leader, women are natural born chameleons. Which means they can adapt to their circumstances in ways men can not fathom.

Women can be leaders. Women can be followers.

As well, women can be dominant. Women can be submissive.

You as a man, do not have that luxury.

As a man you are a leader 24/7.

If you think you are ever off the clock then it will make you weaker. You can rest, but never put yourself in a position where someone else is making the decisions for you.

If you are a business owner, you will go to bed every night after the store closes. When you do you don’t stop being the boss of that shop.

So don’t toss the keys to your business to someone else.

This different between the energies of men and women is profound when it comes to personal relationships. Women want to feel like you are leading. We want to feel like you are dominating us in a magnanimous and respectful way. Women want to follow a man who they feel is looking out for them in the best way possible.

This is the way of romance and intimacy. A dominant man allows a woman to be yielding. That’s what makes her feel feminine. You as the man though, need to be deeply into your masculinity to do this.

So find your inner dominance and go get her!

Instinct & Desire Should Rule Your Sexual Attraction Toward A Woman

When you are sexually attracted to a woman and find yourself shedding clothes together, the last thing you want to do is go at it with a “problem solving” mentality.

This is the time for your instinctual desire to take over.

The understanding of a woman’s body and the skilled execution of certain techniques can certainly add to the sexual experience.

However, it’s more your attitude, your confidence and your PRESENCE that will send her eyeballs rolling to the back of her head.

This is not something you switch on and off. It’s something you LIVE.

And just like you as a man love feeling dominant and powerful, a woman wants to feel like she can surrender to that dominance and go deep into her feminine energy.

THAT is what will make her sexually attracted to you. The more dominant your attitude and the more powerful and focused your masculine energy is, the more she will see you as a Sex God.

Use Your Sexual Primal Instincts

This might take some practice if you are the kind of man who hasn’t spent much time in his masculine energy.

To do this properly, you’ve got to not be too concerned with her feelings and thoughts, yet at the same time take the lead.

If that sounds contradictory, then there’s a lot of work to do for you as a man.

Your primal sexual instincts are honed by being in your masculine energy all day long every day.

When you learn to be in the moment, own yourself and lead women, you will have a bevy of lovely ladies willing (and waiting) to sleep with you.

What women really want is a man who understands sex on a deep primal level.

She wants you to be able to tap into your animal nature in a way that is uninhibited and non-judgmental.

This is one of those critical elements. You don’t ever want her to feel judged by you. If you don’t want her to feel inhibited around you then this is the vital ingredient.

If she feels judged by you… she’ll hold back.

Finally, the 4th and final Primal Polarity Principle of Sexual Attraction is making your encounter with her about sex.

Don’t get stuck in the friend-zone!

This takes BOLDNESS, BRAVERY AND COURAGE – THE STUFF WARRIORS ARE MADE OF!

Now if you’re wondering exactly how to do that, keep in mind that women tend to be much more emotional than men.

Sex is a very emotional experience and it takes courage to partake in it. Both men and women are vulnerable when they have sex.

Physically and psychologically.

Now, whether people show their emotions or not during sex doesn’t matter.

They might even equate it to something ordinary like doing the laundry, it doesn’t mean that the sex didn’t effect them emotionally.

Why?

Because there are a flood of hormones release during sex and especially orgasm that encourage the body – both male and female – to emotionally bond to one another.

You’ve got to remember how much you offer as a man.

Women want your body. They want you to give them a sexual experience they can not get by themselves and won’t get with women and don’t want to get with women anyway.

Your scent, your voice, your musculature and yes, your phallus is something she really wants.

She wants to feel wanted, respected and safe in return. If you make a woman feel like this there is little she WON’T do for you during sex. I promise. 😉

How do you make her feel this way?

Your leadership and dominance as a man are the keys into sexual experiences with women.

As long as you command with respect and allow her to be free to be herself, you will be sowing the seeds to a plethora of sensual experiences.

I hope this has given you some food for thought and confidence that you are a wanted man. All it really takes is a shift in attitude and some practice.

Good Luck and Stay Sensual.