The Exuberance Of Women - Get A Little Wild Ladies!

In this short podcast segment, Dyann discusses the exuberance of women and how important it is to staying wild and independent… and of course, men love exuberant women.

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TRANSCRIPT OF THE EXUBERANCE OF WOMEN

Today we’re talking about the enthusiasm and exuberance of women and where it’s gone.

This is another segment of the Body House Chronicles. I’m Dyann Bridges and let’s get started.

Why are men attracted to women?

In part it’s because of her exuberance and how happy she is. How often she smiles and how much she laughs at his jokes. Sure that’s part of it, but a man wants to know that he can make her happy.

This is important to understand ladies because I know sometimes we dip into depression and sadness and anger.

I get it.

It’s important though to learn how to pull ourselves out of that because a man can only do so much.

It’s not always his fault. Men and women think very differently, this is true. However, this is part of why we’re so endlessly desirous of each other.

So when a man sees a woman that he finds attractive a lot of times it’s because she’s content and happy and smiling and laughing and flipping her hair and allowing all that energy to ripple through her body in a naturally exuberant way. A feminine way.

Men love to see that in women.

You don’t have to be like that all the time, but that is a very happy contented feminine place to be. We’ve got to find a way to get there and to do that ladies.

It’s important to find your independence of thought be truly independent. Don’t worry about what he thinks so much or what anybody else thinks. Keep a sense of wilderness about you, in your spirit and your sense of mystery.

That doesn’t mean holding back. It means you’re comfortable with not knowing, which is connected to independent thought. A lot of times we don’t know. There’s lots of stuff in life we don’t know.

Most of the time we don’t know about what’s going on in life our own lives or other people’s lives and that’s fine and we get to know the things that matter

When you truly find that place in you that is wild and independent, your mystery as a woman can become as deep as the galaxies.

Men don’t have that. Men can have authority and tremendous strength, but they don’t have the same kind of mystery or complexity that women do. That’s the way it’s supposed to be.

Let’s not fool ourselves. Gender is not fluid.

There’s a reason why masculine energy and feminine energy are different; are separate.

It’s the exaggeration of those polarities that ignites true passion. We’ve lost that. We don’t see it that often anymore.

If you look back to earlier movies it was there all the time. Not nowadays. We don’t even really know what that looks like anymore. We’re not sure what a real man looks like nowadays,

If he’s a man who’s strong then he’s called toxic. He has toxic masculinity.

If a woman wants to giggle, wear pretty dresses, and flip her hair she’s an outrageous flirt.

It’s ridiculous. Let’s do better.

So, ladies I would encourage you to find that wild independent place in your thoughts. Follow your creativity. Stop worrying about what’s going on in social media. Really look at your thoughts.

Ask, ‘Did I develop this opinion or did it come from the outside in?’

Ask, Who are you exactly? What does that even mean? Do you truly know what you like? What do you enjoy? What do you not like? Where are your boundaries?

All of this is defining for an individual’s sense of self. Technology has intruded in our lives and our psychology in a way that has corrupted us and separated us from ourselves.

It’s lead us from so much that is good and human.

By thinking that there is no real difference between men and women, other than a few body parts, we’ve taken the passion out of life.

We’ve extinguished the spark of life.

Real fire comes from real desire. Not lust. Real desire is where a man and woman want to bring their full selves into something and relate on every level.

Men can only do that if they’re feeling strong and they’re allowed to demonstrate their territorial protective instincts and not be criticized and smacked down every time they turn around.

It’s not going to be perfect, but we have to give them a break.

This is a man’s instincts; to draw a line in the sand. To say, This is mine. We must allow them that.

Ladies we must be like a wild animal. In the sense that we have our own instincts and we have our own independence doesn’t mean being wild and partying and sleeping around.

Oftentimes it’s just a distraction.

However, wild animals are what they are; independent and instinctual.

You’re not quite sure what a wild animal is going to do next, but they are implicitly themselves.

Men are endlessly attracted to that.

And gentlemen, if you find a wild thing, which is going to be rare nowadays, it’s going to take all your strength and patience to attract and keep her within the limits of your life.

It all starts with women being happy and content within themselves. Find a measure of serenity, meditate and extricate social media.

Find yourselves ladies and men, don’t feel guilty for having the kind of instincts that got us this far in our evolution.

That’s it. Happy relating!