In this short audio, Dyann discusses how you know WHEN and HOW you might be getting played by your lady.
TRANSCRIPT OF ARE YOU GETTING PLAYED?
So gentlemen, how do you know if you’re getting played by a Lady, let’s discuss…
I know this is an issue for a lot of men at various times during their life. The feeling they are ‘getting played’ by a woman.It often happens when you’re at the point with a woman, where you’ve gotten to know her a bit. You’re at that stage where you care about each other.
Maybe it’s not quite full on love, but maybe it feels like it’s going in that direction.
However, it’s certainly passed the point of the first pages of dating. It’s not casual.
What often happens at this point is a man will start to wonder. Especially, when a woman who is normally poised and strong, suddenly starts to cry about something that he doesn’t think is that big of a deal.
It may often coincide with some type of need or request that she has.
Now, it’s certainly understandable if you think that you might be getting playing by her.If you’ve caught her in lies before, if you’ve felt manipulated or taken advantage of before, then maybe the tears really are a way of trying to coerce you into something.
Sometimes there’s a lot more going on.
Have caution and compassion here. Think back and ask if you’ve had those experiences with her.
If you’ve known her for awhile and hasn’t proven to be a liar or a manipulator, then I think there’s something very different going on. I don’t think you’re getting played.
In fact, I think you’ve probably successfully gotten into her heart.
For a woman who is strong and capable, that doesn’t happen that often.
A man needs to be quite strong and persistent to get into the heart of a woman who is independent.
So, you’re probably more likely at the stage of your relationship where she’s feeling vulnerable.
Maybe she’s getting a little bit scared.
Maybe she does have a legit request or need from you.
Sometimes the tears come up because she’s feeling vulnerable.
So instead of feeling like you might be getting played,
perhaps this could be seen as the next step toward intimacy.
I’m not saying you need to acquiesce to every request or do something that you’re not comfortable with.
However, I would just caution you not to jump to negativity too quickly. This criticism could get in the way of you building more intimacy with her.
Of course, you want to help her, but if that’s not something that you can do or really want to do at that stage in your relationship… that’s okay.
Just stay gentle with her.
Appreciate the fact that she’s a little vulnerable at the moment. Be patient and see how things resolve.
Although, you don’t have to feel like you want to just give it up for her because she’s shown a few tears.
It may not be appropriate to think that you’re getting played either. This just might be a sign that you have successfully gotten into her heart. Honor that.
If this is somebody that you’ve worked hard to impress and attract… you’ve earned a measure of intimacy with her.
You can take heart to knowing that she trusts you enough to show that kind of vulnerability.
So this is a good thing.The next time you jump to a conclusion like, Oh, I feel like I’m being played… take a step back.
Maybe there’s more going on here. Maybe it’s something that says there’s potential for more connection, more intimacy and a deeper relationship with this woman.
Either way it is ultimately your choice, right?
I just suggest that you make your decision with some balance and compassion, that’s it. That’s all any of us really needs… and that’s it.
Thank you for reading/listening and have a sensual day, Dyann xoxo
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