I’ve been a certified massage therapist (CMT) for 20 years.
During that time, I’ve worked as a legit massage therapist in clinics and spas across the country.
I’ve also built a private list of clients (off and on) over the years.
When I decided I wanted to make a living online, I knew I’d need a flexible schedule.
So, I decided to build up my private massage business once again.
9 Out Of 10 Callers Asked About This…
It’s a statistical fact, for female massage therapists, that most of their clients will be male.
That’s when they are in a private, independent massage practice.
When they work in day spas they’ll have a mostly female clientele.
So, when I geared up my private practice again, almost everyone who called was male.
However, something had changed since the last time I’d built up my private practice….
Nearly all of them asked (either directly or indirectly) about whether or not I offered an “ending.”
I turned down a TON of business.
I didn’t want to get into the ‘sleazy’ side of the biz. After all, I’d avoided it for my entire massage career to that point.
However, I really needed flexibility in my schedule and regular clientele. So, I gave the market what it was demanding…
I began offering happy endings (hands only)… I’ve never had such a thriving private massage practice.
In some ways it wasn’t as bad as I’d thought it would be and in other ways… it was just as creepy, weird and sleazy as I suspected it would be.
It all depends on… the client.
His attitude. His expectations and of course, his level of respect for the provider.
I found there are stark differences between each man’s perspective of women.
It doesn’t matter a man’s position in life, how well he treats an erotic provider has everything to do with how he feels about women in general.
Variety Is The Spice of Life
I do not and did not discriminate in terms of ethnicity or background. My clients were of every age, race, financial status and education level.
I had some very enlightening conversations with men such as:
- Single 22 year old psych majors looking for a girlfriend
- Rugged, married (or divorced) firefighters
- Cyber security experts in their 30s or 40s
- An ex-FBI agent
- Young military guys back from tours in the Middle East
- A Psychic medium
- Semi-retired, widowed real estate agents with mistresses half their age
- A Hells Angel biker
- Elderly retired corporate attorneys with adult children in political office
- Ex cops
- Chauffeurs for famous entertainers and financiers
- Construction workers
- Personal trainers
- Professional musicians
- Pharmaceutical salesmen
- A couple of professional poker players
- Several doctors including a neurosurgeon
- A couple of little people (dwarves) etc.
The list goes on.
Most of the men have been great!
And I will say…. I got much better at screening them over the phone.
So, it’s been a trade off. I got a thriving private practice and the clients left… uhm… thriving.
There’s More To Sensual Massage
Massage therapy is the type of service that facilitates deeper forms of conversation.
My chats with clients often turned to sex and how men and women relate to each other.
I tried to offer an objective, mature and compassionate opinion.
My advice is not typical of most relationship ‘experts’ since I’m not an ‘expert’ in anything.
What makes my perspective somewhat unique, is my understanding of what men and women need from each other in general.
As far as sensual massage providers go, I was quite conservative and businesslike.
However, what all male clients want from female bodyworkers is some type of friendly and flirtatious interaction.
Even if the sensual massage session doesn’t lead to sex.
Just the act of pleasant conversation with an attractive woman makes a man feel like more of a man.
Men NEED Women
The fact is, men need women. It’s not just about sex or power which is part of it.
It’s also about a man’s sense of himself.
When a man doesn’t get the validation from women he desperately craves, it’s devastating for him.
Women need men too, but more so in the beginning of their lives.
I’ve seen this in the lives of older divorced or widowed women.
Women get to a point in their lives where men become optional for their happiness.
For men though, their desire for women never ends.
My Hope For Men…
My hope is that men will take their need for women and own it, accept it and become the best man he can be not just for women… but for himself.
When a man genuinely acknowledges his deep need for women instead of running from it, he learns to respect and appreciation women more.
It’s this respect and appreciation toward women that is much more likely to get men the validation they so readily crave from the ladies.
In the end, it’s a win-win.
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