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What I Learned When I Worked As A Sensual Massage Therapist


I’ve been a certified massage therapist (CMT) for close to 20 years.

I’ve done many jobs over the years and performing legit therapeutic massage has been a big part of that.

I’ve worked in clinics and spas across the country and built a private list of clients (off and on)  over the years.

About 5-6 years before I stopped doing massage, I decided I wanted to make a living online, but had no idea how to go about it. However, I knew I’d need a flexible schedule.

So, I decided to build up my private massage business once again.  


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9 Out Of 10 Asked About This…

Most everyone who called me for my private practice was male. Nearly all of them asked (either directly or indirectly) about whether or not I offer an “ending.”

I turned down a TON of business.


I didn’t want to get into the sleazy side of the biz. After all, I’d avoided it for most of my massage career.

However, the need for more flexibility forced me to go to that place every certified female massage therapist avoids, but is nearly always judged or accused of doing anyway.

I began offering happy endings (hands only)… I’ve never had such a thriving private massage practice.

However, in many ways the ‘happy ending’ sensual massage work is just as creepy, weird and sleazy as I suspected it would be.

It all depends on… the client.


No Discrimination Here

I do not and did not discriminate. My clients were of every age, race, background and education level.

There were single 22 year old psych majors looking for girlfriends, rugged, married 35 year old firefighters, divorced 41 year old cyber security experts, 28 year old military guys back from tours in the Middle East…


59 year old widowed real estate agents with mistresses half their age and young children, 78 year old retired corporate attorneys with adult children in political office…


I had construction workers, personal trainers, pharmaceutical salesmen, (several) professional poker players, a neurosurgeon, a couple of little people (dwarves) etc.

The list goes on.

So, it’s been a trade off. I got a thriving private practice and the clients left… uhm… thriving.


There’s More To Sensual Massage

Massage therapy is the type of service that facilitates deeper forms of conversation.

My chats with clients often turn to sex and how men and women relate to each other.

I tried to offer an objective, mature and compassionate opinion.

My advice is not typical of most relationship ‘experts’ since I’m not an ‘expert’ in anything.

What makes my perspective somewhat unique, is my understanding of what men and women need from each other in general.


As far as sensual massage providers go, I was quite conservative and businesslike.  

However, what all male clients want from female bodyworkers is some type of friendly and flirtatious interaction.

Even if the sensual massage session doesn’t lead to sex. Just the act of pleasant conversation with an attractive woman makes a man feel like more of a man.


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You Need Us

The fact is, men need women. It’s not just about sex or power which is part of it.

It’s also about a man’s sense of himself. When a man doesn’t get the validation from women he desperately craves, it’s devastating for him.

Women need men too, but more so in the beginning of their lives.

I’ve seen this in the lives of older divorced or widowed women. Women get to a point in their lives where men become optional for their happiness.

For men though, their desire for women never ends.


My Hope For You

My hope is that men will take their need for women and own it, accept it and become the best man he can be not just for women… but for himself

When a man genuinely acknowledges his deep need for women instead of running from it, he learns to respect and appreciation women more.

It’s this respect and appreciation toward women that is much more likely to get men the validation they so readily crave.

In the end, it’s a win-win.



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