Gentlemen, If You Don't Know Your Purpose, Discover It, NOW!

We know that everyone appreciates and respects a man on a mission, right?

Men who have a strong mission, that fire in the belly which drives him through any and all roadblocks, are healthier physically, mentally and emotionally.

Having a strong internal purpose as a man, keeps everything moving and pumping… if you know what I mean!

Of course, women like being on a mission too. However, there is something about the genetic makeup of a man that NEEDS a mission for him to stay strong on every level.

Have you noticed that?

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Without a conscious life purpose a man is totally lost, drifting, adapting to events rather than creating events. Right?

Without knowing his life purpose a man lives a weakened, impotent existence. Perhaps even becoming sexually impotent, or prone to mechanical and disinterested sex.

Does this sound like anyone you know?

As a man, the core of your life is your purpose.

Everything in your life, from your diet to your relationship to your career, must be aligned with your purpose.

If you know your purpose, your deepest desire, then you’re at the game, but haven’t stepped on the field.

So, the secret of a man’s success is to discipline your life so that everything you do supports your deepest purpose. While at the same time, minimizes your distractions and detours.

This includes the women you want to have relationships with. If you want to marry, the lady of choice must demonstrate she will support you in your mission.

Many women today have been told they can demand almost anything from a man, expect to get it and give very little if anything in return.

If you are dating or married to a woman like what I’ve described above… I would suggest you rethink the decision.

As a man, your mission is paramount. You won’t leave your woman in a lurch, but you will leave when it’s inconvenient if duty calls.

Why?

Because as a man, if you don’t know your purpose and deepest desire, then you can’t align your life to it. If you can’t align your life with it your mental focus and discipline will wane.

And when the going gets tough you will almost certainly cave because nothing is pushing you forward.

Without a mission, everything in a man’s life is dissociated from his core.

You go to work, but since it’s not connected to your deepest purpose, it is just a job, a way to earn money.

You go through your daily round with your family and friends, but each moment is just another in a long string of moments, going nowhere, not inherently profound.

Disconnected from your core, you feel weak.

This empty feeling will undermine not only your “erection” in the world and your ability to “penetrate” it, but your erection and penetration abilities will be affected with your lady, too.

However, when you know your mission in life, each moment can become a full expression of it.

Every instant of your career, every instant of intimacy with your lady, is filled with the power of your heart’s mission.

You are no longer just going through the motions, but you are living the truth of your life.

You are giving your man gifts, your talents and point of view to the world, moment by moment. Such a life is complete unto itself in every instant. Right?

The man on a mission is not seeking for fulfillment through work and woman, because he is already full.

For him, work and intimacy are opportunities to give his gifts, and be sated in the bliss of the giving.